If youre wondering how to get a man, stop playing games. You heard me. Games are highly over-rated and only work to your advantage if youre the actress in the movie! Generally, men and women play mind games because they think it will make the other more interested, or they are simply not in a mature place in life to carry on with an adult relationship. However, if you are in a relationship with a man who is playing mind games, figure out what the problem is before you up and end a relationship that could have been fixed with simple communication.
The phone game:
Women will spend days waiting on that one phone call from the guy that they met last weekend. Then, when he finally calls, they will reject the call. If you want to talk to the guy, simply pick up the phone to call him, or answer the phone when he calls you. Simple fix. If you are a traditional type person and would rather wait weeks for that one phone call, then you should have more than one guy in queue. I say this because when you are waiting on other people, they could possibly take forever. When youre waiting on more than one person, you will have plenty to talk to and you wont be wasting your time. Dating waits for no one. If you are the modern woman, you will call the guy when you want to talk to him. This beats waiting! Instead of wondering what hes doing, just call and find out.
Playing Hard To Get:
If youre playing hard to get, please keep in mind that thereare plenty of other women who want to be gotten. While youre sitting there pretending that he is not your only option, he is definitely gathering other potential candidates. I know this sounds harsh, but its real life.
While playing these types of games, you are more likely to turn him off than to turn him on. There is nothing worst than a man trying to pursue a woman who only wants him to wait on her to feel like accepting his calls or dinner invitations.
The bottom line: men like women who are confident and direct. Part of what men judge attraction is your ability to respond to them. No, this doesnt mean you need to answer every phone call or accept every invitation; this may be hard to do. It simply means that if you like him, show it! Lets just face it, women love to be chased; but so do men. If hes always putting in all the work to the relationship, he will most likely move on to someone who meets him half way. Remember, men are looking for a partners; a 50/50 relationship. If you really want to know how to get a man, you have to stop playing games and pursue him as he is pursuing you.