Did you know there are rules for playing hard to get with a man that will get him hooked? What would it take to get him to ask you out? How do you turn initial interest into long-term attraction? Most women find this difficult. Most women know that playing hard to get works, but they don't know how to do it. Follow this advice, and get him hooked.
Keeping a guy's interest can be tough, and every woman needs to rethink her strategy. Women have been playing hard to get throughout history. We see it happen in movies all the time. Guys don't want what they can easily have. You have to make it a challenge for him to get you. It may sound simple, but doing this effectively is easier said than done.
Guys want to hunt, they want something to chase. This is the way to get them hooked. They aren't content to have what they want just handed to them. This is why a girl that knows how to play hard to get might get the guy, even if there is a prettier or nicer girl just waiting around for him. He doesn't want it easy. He wants to be challenged. This will take some effort on your part.
Timing is everything when it comes to playing hard to get. Try to stay mysterious on the first date. Give him information, but just enough to make him want more. However, you don't want to be overly mysterious, or he'll think that you're not into him. Learn how to be mysterious with a mischievous smile on your face. This will make him realize what you're doing, and he'll be intrigued by you.
After you guys have exchanged phone numbers, never call him first. You have to be patient! It might take him longer to call than you thought. Guys like to wait a few days to a week before calling a girl. That's just the way that they are, and if you call him first then you've ruined the chase for him. Don't do that!
If you like him, then do be flirty when he calls. He's just taken a leap of faith in calling you, so this is the right time to flirt with him and build up his ego. If you try to be aloof when he makes that first call, he'll get the wrong idea and think that you don't like him. But don't make it too easy on him. Don't rearrange your schedule to go on that first date. Make him fit into your schedule.
Keep the conversation light and fun on that first date. Never talk about marriage, and please don't whine about your past heartbreaks. That has nothing to do with him, and you'll make him put himself in those guys' shoes as your telling the story of how awful they were. You want to start fresh with your new man. You also want to show him that you're intelligent, because he'll think that it's sexy.
Playing hard to get is a hard game to learn, but if you do it the right way, you'll have him wrapped around your finger. Try these tips we've given you, and you'll definitely have him hooked.